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Perhaps the hardest phrase to speak is “I Love You”. Lot of people don’t even have the courage to say it out. And even you have the courage of saying it, you still wonder How to say it? So here I am listing 38 Best Ways To Say I Love You . . .

1. Place notes in your lover’s lunch telling him how much you love him.

2. Page you sweetheart with an I Love You page.

3. Give her a soft kiss.

4. Make everyday things special.

5. Give your love a little note or sending him an e-mail with a poem in it.

6. Listen to her every word.

7. Making a list of everything you love about them. No matter how stupid.

8. Spend quality time with the one you love.

9. Have flowers delivered with a note attached saying simply, “I love you.”

10. Give unexpected hugs and kisses in unexpected places.

11. Cook them their favorite meal.

12. Hold each other when you fall asleep.

13. Just be together.

14. Give your love a long hard kiss on the lips, followed by a gift.

15. Sending romantic postcards on a daily basis.

16. Get off work early and surprise your sweetheart with a dozen roses and dinner, just because.

17. Spend all week thinking of something special for the weekend and then… do it!

18. Give him a loving smile from across the room.

19. Draw or obtain a new romantic picture of two lovers in each others grasp and give it to your love as a reminder of your passion.

20. If you live quite a distance from your love, surprise them with a visit.

21. When she is asleep in the morning, cover her with rose petals and wake her up to an I love you breakfast in bed.

22. Secretly write S-H-M-I-L-Y anywhere your lover will find it. SHMILY= See How Much I Love You.

23. Rub your nose on your sweetheart’s nose!

24. Grab him by the waist, pulling him towards you, then softly touching his lips with yours.

25. Have a romantic weekend.

26. For a week, smothering your spouse with all the small intimate things they like.

27. Share a bottle of wine and a rose….

28. Do a simple act of kindness, such as a backrub when he feels sick, to brighten his day.

29. Make a big sign (like the ones you use for demonstrations) quoting “Did my heart love ’til now? Forswear it sight, for I never saw true beauty ’til this night.”

30. Make a web page for your girlfriend to tell her how much you love her.

31. Write long, erotic letters where you describe how much you love them.

32. Whisper I love you in his ear while dancing a romantic slow melody.

33. Sitting outside under that stars and say, “I have never felt so special before… I owe this to you. I love you.”

34. Creep up on your lover and whisper I love you in their ear.

35. In the middle of your partner’s conversation with someone else, lean over and whisper I love you in their ear.

36. When you know it will be your partner on the phone say I love you right when you answer it.

37. Look into her eyes, hold her hands and then silently whisper I love you.

38. When you are doing an everyday thing, just look at him, and lean over, give him a little peck and say I love you . . .

Motorcycle accidents are common and may end in loss of precious lives. Riders must make wearing helmets a must.

Shantanu rides to work everyday. The 27-year old loves his motorbike and will trade it in for nothing. Once, on his way back home, he went on a riding spree with his friends. He had an accident. Fortunately, apart from a fracture and some bruises, he endured no head or facial injuries. Had it not been for his helmet, the accident could have turned fatal and his family would be doing with one member less.

Wearing a helmet is indispensable

Imagine world cricketers batting on fields without wearing helmets? You would think they are either out of their minds or are dare devils. It is not any different for motorcycle riders either.

You may find it very cumbersome to wear helmets. Every time somebody insists on your wearing one, you may think it is a waste of time. You may feel thataccidents can never happen to you. If you are a safe rider then why worry?

Riding a bike at 55 kmph means you are moving at 49 feet per second. It is the speed at which you would hit the ground, if you were to jump from the fourth floor of a building. You may have a million excuses for not protecting yourself with a helmet. But this is reason enough for all those arguments to do a vanishing act. A little care can save your life.

How does a helmet work?

A helmet works exactly like your skull. Made from fibreglass and thermoplastic it acts like a shell for protecting your brain. The inside of a helmet is lined with expanded polystyrene (EPS) of controlled density. When the helmet is struck with a hard surface, the inner lining acts as a buffer and absorbs the shock. It bears the sudden change in energy and pressure and keeps the skull intact. The EPS may crush but it still protects the skull.

When the skull is hit it moves towards the brain, leading to brain damage. The helmet, by buffering the impact of shock and dissipating the energy, prevents the skull from causing an impact on the brain. In 2007, the Mumbai Traffic Police registered over 7 lakh cases of bike accidents. In the US, close to 5000 people were killed in bike accidents, 60 per cent of whom were not wearing a helmet. The deadliest injuries occurred on the head and the chest. The ones who were helmeted prevented possible critical head and facial injuries.

GUYS I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU LIKE THIS!! please WEAR HELMET.. YOUR FAMILY/FRIENDS NEED YOU

What makes a good helmet?

A good helmet is one that promotes your safety. Ensure that you check for these features:

The outer shell of a good helmet must be made of fiberglass or thermoplastic. EPS is the best energy absorbent and is a must for helmets.

Look for a strong chinstrap. Nylon or Tyrelene are the best. The chinstraps must be secured to the shell by steel anchor plates.

Fastening by double 'D' rings, bars & buckles or an all metal clasps is also safe. Copper or brass is the best for fixing anchor plates to the shell.

How do you know if the helmet fits you well?

Try on the helmet to know if the fit is right. If it is wobbly and comes off easily from your head, then it is too loose. You do not want to lose the helmet at the very first impact. If the helmet leaves a mark on your face, when you take it off, that means it is too tight. Select one with a good grip. Tilt your head from side to side, move it up and down, to check the fit. The helmet has to fit snugly on your head.

Safety standards for helmets

Every county has a different safety standard for helmets. According to the Indian laws, wearing helmets while riding bikes is mandatory. The safety standard that the Indian government has approved for motorcycle helmets is IS 4151. The USA complies with FMVSS 218. Safety standards also vary across industries. Find the standard that your government has set, for your activity and vehicle, and stick to it.

Checklist before buying a helmet

You are ready to buy a helmet, but do not know where to begin. Here is a checklist that can make buying a helmet easier and meaningful.

Check for safety standards

Take time to check fittings. Ensure a comfortable fit

Try a helmet in front of a mirror to check if it suits your personality

Buy a helmet from an authorised dealer only. Never buy it from street side vendors

Insist on a bill and save it

Ask for a helmet instruction card along with the helmet. Read it carefully

Buy a helmet lock. If you do not wish to carry your helmet around, you can lock it to your motorcycle

Busting helmet myths

You might be under the impression that helmets not only seize the feeling of freedom that riding a bike gives but also hold you back. It is time now to bust those myths.

Helmets do not give you bald pates even if you wore them round the clock. In 1981, this fact was studied and proved by Dr. Arthur Rook, a leading authority on baldness and consultant dermatologist.

When you are in motion, helmets do not impair hearing. A study conducted at the California Institute of Technology and USDA forests service proves this fact.

Helmet maintenance

To make optimum use of your helmet, treat it with care. The easy tips given here can help you use your helmet well.

Get your helmet some fresh air everyday and avoid foul odours.

Keep your helmet clean.

Check if the straps are not worn out.

If your helmet has faced an impact, buy a new one.

Avoid pressing the inner lining of the helmet because it can impair its capacity to bear pressures.

Avoid stuffing things in your helmet. It is not a carry bag.

Take care not to drop your helmet as it might create dents on it.

Keep it away from children.

Change your helmet every two to three years.

Motorcycle riders are generally young and often sole bread winners of the family. Every time somebody succumbs to an accident, a country loses precious life. A family may lose an entire support system. Beyond economical reasons, there are also emotional threads tied to every individual's life. All you need to do to prevent this is, wear a helmet!

No matter how adjusting your spouse or girlfriend is, it’s only natural for she will want things her way now and then.

Although, it’s ok to let woman have their way at times, you know she’s crossing the line when she’s resorts to the ultimate in relationship weapon - the ultimatum.

This is when you face the patented female cry of, "or else", the most. She might threaten to leave you or to just make your life miserable; either way, there are a few tactics that can help you out when dealing with ultimatums. Sure you can snub her but ignore these only if you are willing to listen to her countless banter during the India-Australia finals.

These tactics are especially useful if you judge your situation correctly and react accordingly. Read the Xperts view and to get prepared for just about anything she can throw your way, and how you can diffuse an otherwise no-win situation. While you might not get these exact bombs thrown your way, this Xpert’s guide can help you categorize what she wants and what to do when dealing with ultimatums.

Ultimatum no. 1

“You spend too much time with your friends, stop-it, or else we’re spending more time with my family.”

Xpert tactic: Deflect the threat

If the request is outrageous, it's fine to turn-tables and send the ultimatum back at her. If she says, “if you loved me you wouldn't go out with the friends tonight,” your can respond by saying, "if you loved me you wouldn’t stop me from having a personal life” or “if you loved me you wouldn’t be afraid of me having a social life." It’s a good idea to make your girl see the situation if she’s in it. No woman can expect complete compliance when she's asking you to change, so when you rework her ultimatum into a response that focuses on her, she'll understand how the situation might really be about her and not you. Granted, your approach will have to be gentler than what’s presented, but you get the general idea.

Ultimatum no. 2

“We don’t talk about our relationship ever, this way our relationship is going to end.”

Xpert tactic: Comply with it

This is quiet a serious ultimatum in any relationship and can definitely spell relationship-disaster if you don't play your cards right. Since she’s not being unreasonable and it does not require you to go out of your way than normal relationship behavior, it’s ok in-this-case to do as she asks (read requests). You should realize that you can get away with upping your communication level only slightly and she'll still be receptive. She might even feel a compelling bond between the two of you and consequently be sexier in bed.

Ultimatum no. 3

"My family insists I marry someone that’s the same religion, so you have to convert or we can’t get married."

Xpert tactic: Rationalize with her

It may be a good idea to first weigh your own priorities. If the issue matters to her more, and not so much of a big-deal for you than comply with her as it may be a sincere request disguised as an ultimatum. However, if you are truly opposed to what she wants from you, it's time to take out your thinking cap. The best thing to do when dealing with ultimatums of this sort is to explain the reasons behind your opinion and have a discussion about why her issue isn't a possibility for you right now -- or ever. Since there are other parties involved, it may require you to reason with them as well as these types of requests are touchy and emotional, a simple “no” won't suffice; she's going to need solid reasoning for your refusal.

Ultimatum no. 4

“If you don't help fold your clothes and keep them back in the closet the 'right' way, I'm going to stop doing it all together.”

Xpert tactic: Ignore it

Just because she drops the “my way or the highway” bomb, doesn't mean you have to react and get into an argument. If her request is not relationship threatening and is really a minor threat, she's probably trying to work out another relationship issue by baiting you.

Xpert Warning: Only use this tactic when dealing with ultimatums that are of the” take out the trash” sorts.

Ultimatum no. 5

“You never show any affection towards me in public or in front of your friends. Do it, or else, no more night-out with guys for you.”

Xpert tactic: Compromise with her

Since she’s requesting a change of behavior from you, this is something of importance to her, so be prepared to cut a deal. Compromising with your girl shows her, that you value her point of view, but it also lets you retain your own self respect (read ego), without completely caving in. Since this ultimatum is a fairly grave one, and since you might not be comfortable showing your affections in public, it’s important to take the time to discuss when PDAs (public-display-of-affection) are and aren't acceptable. For example, you can reach a middle ground by agreeing to hold her hand when going to the mall, and she behaves when you're out with your buddies.

Ultimatum no. 6

“We hardly spend any time together and you don’t call me enough anymore; I’m not having sex with you.”

Response tactic: Empathize with her

A true Xpert knows that if an upset or angry woman is throwing ultimatums at you, she’s probably feeling frustrated in other areas in her life. What she’s really after is the feeling of emotional power from the safest source she can get it from - you - and the bonus benefit of your love & care. If her demanding and irrational behavior is obviously a result of tension elsewhere in her life and isn't really a valid reflection of the problems in your relationship, try setting the ultimatum aside and get to the root of her insecurities. As an example, she might be feeling isolated from her family or her best friend and is now looking towards you to fill a void.

Ultimatum no. 7

“You have six months to propose marriage, or I’m finding someone who will.”

Response tactic: Refuse to cave

An ultimatum forces a decision, whether you're ready for it or not. If you don't want to play games with your woman or are tired of repetitive threats, call her bluff and let her follow through with her “or else.” If she has announced that she'll leave you if you don't propose by your next anniversary, let her. She'll no doubt come back to reality pretty quickly when she realized that her plan isn't going to work.

Handling her threats Xpertly

Your woman’s ultimatums can make you feel as though you’re being pinned into a corner and they can put you on the defensive, which, of course, isn't going to make for a solid relationship. It's important to remember that not all ultimatums are created equal and, therefore, you can't respond the same way each time. When your girlfriend uses threats to get her way, the ball is in your court and the only thing you can control is your reaction. Knowing when to fight and when to go with the flow is the most vital ultimatum skill.